Mods can be found at https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3
The table below covers mods I have installed and whether they are client side only (ie. it doesn’t matter if anyone else has the mod installed) or if everyone needs to have them for the purposes of multiplayer
I’ve also got different views and sorting depending on who I’m playing with, but that’s just a me thing, you don’t need to worry about that